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Skill Or Will?!

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Skill or Will? What a person needs to be recognized? What is needed to get fame? What is the 1st step to reaching heights? Is it the skill or will? Skill: A person has a calibre to do/achieve a task and can do it on their own themselves with the T.A.L.E.N.T. they acquire making them stand out of crowd Will: In this case, a person may lack resources or maybe don't get the right platform to showcase their talent and then are demoralised or underestimated! Which forces them to give up, and leave it. But, it's their inner W.I.L.L. to do it and achieve what they have thought already! Both, skill and will has it's own value in reaching heights! You may have the will to do something, but skill is needed to achieve it to it's best - i.e. 100% potential In the other way round: you may have the best of the best skills to achieve what you think, but unless you don't have the will.. the motivation and the spark from the heart to do it... Irrespective of the skills...

A Year Gone By!

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A year gone by... A year gone by... From, entering grade 9 to grade 10 From, scoring 80% to scoring 50% From, getting guided by the best teachers to receiving one of the most prestigious awards From, starting a blog from 0 to taking it to 1,500 From, wasting time on games to joining the World's Largest Youth Run Organization From, having no friend circle to meeting some random people be best friends From, loosing confidence to gaining it back with a bang From, loosing temper in a wink of eye to gaining the spirit of patience  From, seeing army chief's on television to asking them questions about the spirit of patriotism live (one on one) From, not analysing situations and taking decisions to personal analysis on every situation From, flying in air (success) to coming back on Earth (failures) With an analysis of the academic year 2020 - 2021... A year gone by, A year gone by.... Giving lessons to remember for Life 💯

Choices

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Life is like a road, a journey, which we all go through! It may be rough or smooth, long or short, up or down, or any other way. While facing scenarios not in our favour, we generally end up making the wrong choices or decisions, for which we regret the whole life. C.H.O.I.C.E.S. according to me means 2 different or opposite ways to reach a goal. For example: you have to pick a choice, of choosing medicine or mechanix as your career - but the main goal/objective of the choice will be Y.O.U.R. S.U.C.C.E.S.S. Life is like a diverged road, which will give you not only easy but hard choices to make. Society will criticise you, in whatever choice you make! Remember:   Everything in life is a reflection of the choices you make! So, you are the one to decide what choice to make, because at the end.. it's your choice as it's your life. 

Gratitude!

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Dear Grandfather ❤️ The feeling of thankfulness you have. A person cannot achieve anything in isolation and needs someone to be back a support in every phrase of life. Irrespective of the scenario that person always stands by your side and stands by you in every up and down of life. The source of my support is my very own grandfather. As a child, whatever I do and success I get, I would owe it to him. He gave me the best resources and was found criticizing me (obviously in a healthy way) and always encouraged to do more! To and beyond my potential and capabilities! You are my M.A.N. and my H.E.R.O . "Keep showering your love and blessings from up there!"  With Love A granddaughter ❤️

Acceptance

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Acceptance! A deep word, with very deep meanings! It can have a different meaning every person in every context. Thinking about A.C.C.E.P.T.A.N.C.E . for me means to easily inculcate yourself with others. Whether it's in terms of friends, family, relationships, religion, or maybe a random guest with whom you interact in a family gathering. Acceptance can also be used in context to just camouflage in a situation, which is tough to handle or it affects you mentally! Accept the Situation as it is Forget about how you thought things were supposed to be and accept them for what they are. Well, what if we follow the signs of the universe and surrender to what is. Better things are on the way. In the 21st century, it's hard to accept yourself. As far as Human Psychology is concerned, it's unconditionally difficult for a person to accept himself/herself because we think of losing all our fantasies and punish ourselves by thinking ourselves as W.E.A.K .  To Remember: Ac...

Life in an Urban City

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A busy life, A digital life, A life with chaos, A life with many problems, A life with pressure and this sums A life in an urban city! A Life in an Urban City is full of Pressure, which leads to various problems whether it's mental stress, frustratation, depression, self isolation, heart issues or various such problems!! Most of the people who face such problems start feeling depressed, thinking of the stress they are going through! But as far as I am concerned, depression is not a solution to the problems. To have a peaceful life, you need internal peace which can be attained by: Just stay focused on things you can focus. Spend time in/with nature. Be assertive. Be just true you. Keep exercising on regular basis. Be pro active. Keep meditating. Don't change yourself for others. If you keep practicing either 2 of them regularly, your stress level would be dropped drastically! In the end: Never be in a hurry, do everything quietly and in a calm spirit.

Patience

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The WORLD  says, that be patient to achieve your goals, patience is the first  step to success, patience makes you feel better from within, etc. but the WORLD  also forgets that it isn't the same as always. Patience - means that you ensure that you take all the things in  without having a side effect, or maybe, an action without a reaction.      The quality of patience is indeed important, and makes the World function but it's excess goes beyond your head and is harmful. It is required which may come with a lot of practice and may give eternal peace.  Beware, a wrong timing for losing patience can aggravate anger, violence and even trigger a war between countries.  There is an old Taoist metaphor, Do you have the patience till your mud settles and the water is clear. In the end: "Patience is humility, not apathy"  ~Osho

True You

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Often we experience inner pain when our minds are focused on the opposite of something that we want, or on the absence of something that we want. These thoughts aren't in alignment with our true selves, and so the negative emotion can act as a guide to say: "these thoughts are not needed, they are not any good for you, there is no need to believe them." And yet, sometimes we can still find ourselves in low moods or in a state of negativity that has built some momentum through our habit of belief. If we stop taking stress of unnecessary things in life, it will be way more sorted and what you are looking peace would automatically come to you!! In the end: The definition of peace is -  It does not mean to be a place where there is  no struggle, trouble or noise. It means to be the midst of all these things and still be calm at your heart! 

ME-Time

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For all those who are fed up of life, start taking out time for yourself! I met so many people who say they don't have time for so many things in their day to day life how would they take time out for themselves?! Time is something which doesn't come, you have to figure out time. Remember Time Management and Figuring out time for yourself are way 2 different things Take time out for yourself at night, when you probably have to rest, sit outside the window in open air- feel the nature around you! If not that, listen to your favourite tunes or play relaxing music Even if that is not possible, express yourself on a pen and paper, pen down whatever you think! Worst case scenario: even if writing is not possible, just close your eyes and remember the one closest to your heart This indeed is very smoothing and relives the entire stress in one go! In the end: Make yourself the priority, in your priority list. 

Respect!

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The world functions on one thing, Respect. Both Respect and Karma are inter related to each other! Whatever you give is whatever you get. The same is the case with RESPECT , if you respect a person he or she in return would respect you. I came across a person today, saying - by adding sir/ma'am to someone's name, won't give him respect. I thanked that person for the point she made but as far as I am concerned, by adding a word called Sir/Ma'am  may make feel a person pleasured, respectful, mentored, honoured and many more feelings at the very same moment!! Remember the rule of life: Whatever you give is whatever you get In the end: Adding Sir/Ma'am won't make you down but adding Sir/Ma'am would make another person feel special!!! 

What's Life?!

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What's life?! Life is something which you live. A few love their life, and a few are fed up of their's.  So, probably life for me is something called as a Rollercoaster!  Sounds funny? No it isn't!  Life is a rollercoaster ride full of ups and downs, twists and turns. As per reports, 94.35% of the World Population is fed up of their life and end up taking steps leading to serious accidents and deaths too!!  For all those who are fed up of their lives:  • Start taking out time for yourself. • Remove yourself from the stuff in which you don't want get yourself involved, or unknowingly involved in. • Life is precious, love it the way it's going, and not think of ending it because that's something your family didn't expect In the end: Live the life you love, love the life you live!